Maybe you’re a dieter who wants to give up restrictive eating because you just…can’t…do it…anymore. Or maybe you’re someone who has struggled with overeating for some time. Either way, you’re wondering how you can eat healthier while still feeling relaxed around food. The answer: Intuitive Eating!
Intuitive Eating is a book by registered dietitians Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch that teaches the reader how to stop dieting and start looking within for guidance around eating. The 10 principles of Intuitive Eating are:
In my opinion, rejecting dieting mentality and honoring your internal hunger and fullness cues are the core elements of Intuitive Eating. Within the this framework, I believe there is a lot of flexibility (it’s intuitive, after all!) to suit anyone’s needs. Long-time restrictive eaters might benefit more from “demand feeding” – eating whenever you feel hungry for food, even if it is not on a schedule. Some may enjoy a more structured approach, such as having regular breakfast, lunch, dinner and snack times, but within that structure, giving yourself food that you really love and eating as much as you want while honoring hunger and fullness signals.
Others might find yet different ways to eat intuitively. The main point is to not get to that overly hungry, starved place before a meal – the feeling I like to call hangry (yeah, you know it, hungry-angry) – which usually results in eating way too much. The other key is finding that magic stopping point, the one where your stomach says to you, in a very rational voice (which I imagine to sound a lot like KITT, the car from Knight Rider), “That was delicious, and even though I’m not stuffed yet, I really think I’ve had enough.” It sounds easy, but if you’ve been dieting a long time, these are skills you may have to re-learn (we know how to do this as babies). Depending on how long you’ve been ignoring these internal cues, it could take a while to become skillful at eating intuitively again, but rest assured it is way easier and a lot more enjoyable than counting calories.
What Intuitive Eating is not: Emotional eating. Eating to self-medicate. Eating to meet someone else’s idea of what you should eat. “Letting yourself go.”
What is the result of Intuitive Eating? Well, this is how it has worked for many of my clients
In other words, they are free from the hold food had on them. And then they are free to live the other aspects of life fully.
I am a certified Intuitive Eating Counselor, so if you want to feel free of the power food has over you, schedule a 30 minute free call and we’ll see what could help.
Excellent points and very sensible. Blessings,
Thanks for your comment! Yes, once we take weight loss out of the equation, it becomes a matter listening to our bodies which often have more sense about what we need than our brains.
Thank you! This is one of the best Intuitive Eating posts I have read! I haven’t had a chance to read the book yet (soon!!) and this really explained it in an easy-to-digest manner.
I’m glad you liked it! The book is great and so easy to understand, but I think these are the basics that it boils down to.
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